While cleaning the overflow of the toilet because the seacocks were left open, an unexpected drama unfolded at the anchorage in Waiheke Island’s Oneroa Bay. Within minutes, what seemed like a distant issue became our own.
Precious Time Together
It is Christmas day. Last time I saw my son was a year ago in Grenada. I am very grateful that he is with me in New Zealand for two weeks to celebrate both his Birthday and Christmas. We have only three days left before he flies back to The Netherlands. What should have been peaceful time together became an unexpected test of resilience and teamwork.
A Sound Signals Trouble
Anchored peacefully, I heard a sound and asked my son to check the anchor. He reassured me that everything was fine. But within a minute, he called out again, alerting me to a collision between two boats. Observing the scene, I noticed a Kaskelot, double-ender NØRD, and a vessel piloted by a man behaving erratically, whom we later called “the crazy guy.” At first glance, it appeared that their anchors had slipped due to the wind and swell. The Kaskelot is a bigger version of my Grinde and got a hole in their hull from the collision. But we didn’t know that at that time.
A Suspicious Approach
The “crazy guy” circled another boat, a Pogo 12.50, emitting black smoke from his exhaust. Believing he might need assistance, I observed the Pogo’s owner pursuing him closely in a dinghy. Moments later, the Pogo’s owner came to our boat, explaining that the man had intentionally collided with the double-ender and was now demanding a phone.
The Encounter Turns Personal
Soon, the “crazy guy” turned his attention to us. Spotting me on my phone, he started approaching aggressively. Realizing the severity of the situation, I called 111 for police assistance. At the same time, a nearby catamaran radioed me, but our VHF cable malfunctioned. I asked them to contact Auckland Maritime as I continued the emergency call.
Close Call Mid Ship
As the man neared our stern, we tried to distract him, but he was fixated on obtaining a phone. He circled us repeatedly, aiming midship. I instructed my son to hoist the anchor as I pushed his boat away from ours who was now against our boat. His anchor got entangled under our railing, but I managed to free it, pushing his vessel toward the stern.
A Desperate Move
With our small engine running at full throttle, we struggled to distance ourselves from him. He pursued us relentlessly, closing the gap. Panicking, I began crying, but my son urged me to stay calm and go inside. After realizing we couldn’t outmaneuver him, I told my son to give him one of his phones.
Negotiating for Safety
My son tossed his work phone, issued by the Dutch Army, onto the man’s boat. However, unlocking the phone became a painstaking task. The man grew suspicious as he failed to input the long code correctly. Shouting ensued, and his aggression escalated. When he demanded that my son board his boat to assist, I firmly refused.
A Narrow Escape
We managed to escape as he shifted his focus to another boat, the Mai Tai Catamaran. Hoisting the mainsail and jib, we sailed out of the bay, putting as much distance as possible between us and the “crazy guy.” While passing the double-ender, its occupants signaled to talk, but I remained focused on getting out of sight.
Finally the Police comes
As we sailed away, we spotted a police boat entering the bay. They headed toward the “crazy guy,” and Auckland Maritime contacted us on VHF. With our VHF issues, I called them via phone and provided details about what happend and that our phone was still with that guy.
Reaching Safety
Acknowledging each other for our efforts, my son and I decided to dock at Bucklands Beach. Arriving safely a few hours later, we inspected the damage in the fading light. The starboard railing and extensions were bent, but the extent of the damage would have to wait until morning.
Awaiting Closure
The police followed the “crazy guy” to a nearby port to Westhaven in Auckland. They planned to board his boat upon docking, hoping to recover the stolen phone using its sound feature. Meanwhile, we prepared to document the damage. The next day the police are bringing back the phone and taking our statements at Buckland Beach Marina.
Cherishing the Remaining Time
Though shaken, we took a moment to acknowledge each other for staying calm under pressure and making the right decisions. With only three days left together, we vowed to make the most of our time, grateful for our safety and the bond that saw us through this harrowing experience.
Whow wat een gedoe maar super gehandeld. Zo zie je maar idioten zijn er overal
Terrible experience for you both Jacqueline. Stay safe, but im sure the local police will keep a good eye on things for a while. Enjoy the rest of your time with your son. Xx
Jacqueline, you are a very brave lady 👏
So sad to hear this distressing news. Trust the rest of your son’s stay is filled with love and joy 🤩
Wow, wat een heftig verhaal.
Gelukkig is het goed afgelopen.
Mijn ervaring in Nederland is dat daar best wel veel mensen op een boot wonen met psychische problemen.
Dat zal over de hele wereld gezien niet veel anders zijn vermoed ik.
Goed dat jullie zo rustig zijn gebleven.
Maar het geeft toch veel onrust.
Sterkte gewenst.
Hopelijk laat je je plezier in het zeilen niet ontnemen door dit gebeuren.
Wat een vreselijk verhaal!
Maar wat een geluk dat je zoon erbij was!
Geniet van jullie tijd nog samen!🩷
Jezus Jacq wat eng! Wat fijn dat je zoon bij je was en dat jullie elkaar er doorheen hielpen. Ik hoop dat jullie nog een paar fijne dagen hebben gehad!
Hey, on Christmas Day I heard the catamaran speaking with maritime radio VHF as we were heading from Rakino Island back into Auckland. I’m curious as to what kind of vessel the “crazy guy” had. I’m
Pleased you made it away safely and continued to have time with your son.
Jacq, zou je dit bericht in Nederlands willen sturen. Wat was nu precies de reden waarom hij een telefoon wilde hebben?
Dank voor alle fijne reacties! De man was blijkbaar onder invloed van drugs, Meth, en dacht dat de wereld zou vergaan en moest daarom nodig bellen. Hij is een bekende bij de politie. Momenteel zijn er twee aanklachten tegen hem ingediend wegens ‘Assault vanwege het afnemen van onze telefoon’ en ‘Assault with a weapon’. Assault betekent Aanranding. Dit is de handeling waarbij opzettelijk geweld wordt toegepast of geprobeerd wordt uit te oefenen op de persoon van een ander, direct of indirect, of door middel van een handeling of gebaar dreigt dergelijk geweld toe te passen op de persoon van een ander, indien de persoon die de dreiging uit, de andere persoon om op redelijke gronden te geloven dat hij over het vermogen beschikt om zijn doel te verwezenlijken.